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What it is
Paradoxical intention is a technique where you lie in bed and try to stay awake instead of trying to sleep. It sounds backwards. The aim is to take away the pressure that builds when you try hard to drop off.
It is one of the cognitive techniques used alongside the main behavioural parts of cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I).
Why trying hard to sleep can backfire
Sleep is one of the few things that gets harder the more effort you put in. If you lie there willing it to come, you stay alert to whether it is coming. You notice every twitch and thought, and check how awake you feel.
Researchers call this sleep effort. In the cognitive model of insomnia described by Allison Harvey, worry and close monitoring of sleep keep the mind switched on. The more anxious you get about not sleeping, the more awake you feel. Paradoxical intention aims to break that loop by removing the goal.
How people practise it
The usual approach is simple to describe:
- Get into bed at your normal time and turn the light off.
- Keep your eyes open in the dark.
- Tell yourself you are going to stay awake a little longer.
- Do not use screens, read or get up to do things.
- If you notice yourself drifting, let it happen without trying to stop or help it.
The aim is to stop chasing sleep, without fighting it either. Many people find the change of goal takes the edge off the worry.
What the research says
A 2021 systematic review and meta-analysis by Jansson-Fröjmark and colleagues pooled the trials on paradoxical intention. It found the technique helped with insomnia severity and sleep effort compared with control groups, though the trials were small and few.
The AASM guideline does not list it as a main stand-alone option. It is best seen as an add-on to the core behavioural techniques.
When it is less likely to help
Paradoxical intention eases worry about sleep. It does not create sleepiness. If you go to bed before you are sleepy, or your bedtimes and wake times vary a lot, it has little to work with.
It may also feel like the wrong tool if your nights are broken by pain, needing the loo or loud snoring. Those are worth raising with a GP. Our free self-check covers some signs to mention.
How it fits with the core techniques
Most CBT-I programmes start with a steady wake time, a sleep window and getting up when wide awake. Paradoxical intention can sit on top of those, for nights when the worry about sleep is the main thing keeping you up.
If a busy mind is the bigger problem, quieten a racing mind has other ideas to try, and sleep anxiety looks at the worry itself.
FAQ
- Does paradoxical intention help insomnia?
- A 2021 review of trials found it helped with insomnia severity and sleep effort compared with control groups. Guidelines see it as one of several options rather than a core part of CBT-I.
- How do you do paradoxical intention?
- Lie in bed in the dark with your eyes open and aim to stay awake, without screens or forcing it. The point is to drop the effort of trying to sleep.
- What is sleep effort?
- It is the strain of trying to make sleep happen: checking whether you are drifting off, willing yourself to sleep, and worrying when you are not.